by Noella Noelophile®
(Royalty-free image by Pierre Blaché from Pixabay.
Leadership involves making the tough, unpopular decisions. Even when that’s the last thing in the world you want to do.
Simone Biles is a leader. Whether or not she ever wins another gold medal.
With the rest of the world, I watched her leave the competition area on Tuesday. Her heart had to be breaking. But she made the right decision.
Now, I am spectacularly un-athletic. Gym class was my nemesis in school. I was consistently the last kid chosen, for any team.
The closest thing I’ve ever done to gymnastics, occurred quite accidentally in our kitchen. I stepped on a blackberry and did a slide, ending in a half-split, that might have had an ice-skating coach cringing. (I’m still amazed that I didn’t break anything!)
Consequently, I know nothing about the pressures involved in competing in the Olympics. But I do know, as do you, what it is to experience the pressure of others’ expectations.
(Royalty-free image by Sasin Tipchai from Pixabay.)
It would have been all-too-easy for Simone to say, “I’m here now. People are depending on me. The show must go on.”
And she could have wound up with a severe injury. The term “lost in the air” was new to me, with these Olympics. But apparently, according to this morning’s news reports, it’s a common occurrence with gymnasts.
Shockingly, Simone is beginning to encounter “trolls” online, after her decision. Often, those offering “expert” criticism on her choices, have never been in her situation.
Personally, I loved that she came back and cheered on her teammates. And the hugs she gave the winning Russian team members. Not to mention her humility when she told her teammates, “If you need anything, I’ll get it.”
In a time when we see all-too-many athletes cry, sulk or take out their temperament on others, she shines like the refreshing star she’ll always be.
A leader serves, listens and empathizes. And creates other leaders.
Take care of yourself, Simone. Get healthy and strong mentally, and keep right on inspiring for many long, happy years.
Gold medals can tarnish.
The far-reaching effects of your bravery and maturity never will.