{"id":14431,"date":"2020-05-08T12:52:31","date_gmt":"2020-05-08T19:52:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/noelophile.com\/?p=14431"},"modified":"2020-05-08T12:52:31","modified_gmt":"2020-05-08T19:52:31","slug":"a-mothers-day-remembrance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/noelophile.com\/?p=14431","title":{"rendered":"A Mother&#8217;s Day Remembrance"},"content":{"rendered":"<h6>by Noella Noelophile\u00ae<\/h6>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/noelophile.com\/?attachment_id=14436\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-14436\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-14436\" src=\"https:\/\/noelophile.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/IMG_5966-3-e1588967037133.jpg\" alt=\"Pink rosebud opens out on the bush\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My mother always smelled of Arpege cologne.\u00a0 It was her favorite.<\/p>\n<p>When company was coming, or for a special occasion, she&#8217;d always wear her pearls.\u00a0 They made her look especially pretty.<\/p>\n<p>And I always hated to see her volunteer as &#8220;class mother&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Why, given that she was an amazing mom?<\/p>\n<p>Simply because, if there were a game or exercise for which she had to choose students to participate, I <em>knew <\/em>she wouldn&#8217;t pick me.<\/p>\n<p>She didn&#8217;t want to &#8220;play favorites&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>But what I remember best about my mother, was one experience in autumn, 1967.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/noelophile.com\/?attachment_id=14412\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-14412\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-14412\" src=\"https:\/\/noelophile.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/more-purple-flowers-1-e1585763729522.jpg\" alt=\"Purple hibiscus against cloudly sky\" width=\"434\" height=\"600\" \/><\/a>She&#8217;d gone to the bank and store on a routine errand.\u00a0 When she returned, she had a story to tell.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I saw all this money blowing around on the street,&#8221; she said.\u00a0 &#8220;I thought it was play money.\u00a0 Then, I looked more closely and saw it was <em>real<\/em> money.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The total sum of the cash blowing around the street?\u00a0 Around $200.<\/p>\n<p>My mom said she&#8217;d gathered up the bills, with the help of a friend from church who happened by.\u00a0 Then, she went on to the bank&#8211;where she asked for her favorite teller.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think one of your depositors might have dropped this,&#8221; my mother said.<\/p>\n<p>Hearing the story from my mom was no surprise.\u00a0 That was how she was.\u00a0\u00a0 If your mother is a concert pianist, you&#8217;re used to hearing symphonies.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/noelophile.com\/?attachment_id=14438\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-14438\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-14438\" src=\"https:\/\/noelophile.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/05\/jasmine-11-e1588967515298.jpg\" alt=\"White jasmine flower blloms against green leaves\" width=\"450\" height=\"600\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>But the story doesn&#8217;t end there.<\/p>\n<p>My mom had been home from the store for about an hour when the doorbell rang.\u00a0 When she answered it, an older gentleman stood on the front porch.<\/p>\n<p>He had come to thank her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I cashed my pension check,&#8221; our visitor said.\u00a0 &#8220;I reached in my pocket for a handkerchief and must have pulled out the money.\u00a0 That&#8217;s my income for the next two weeks.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He insisted on giving my mother a $10 reward, which she didn&#8217;t want to take.\u00a0 And about a week later, a letter came in the mail.<\/p>\n<p>His daughter, a Catholic nun, had written my mother a beautiful note, thanking her for her kindness to her dad.\u00a0 My mother, of course, would never have thought of doing any differently.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want what doesn&#8217;t belong to me,&#8221; she commented.<\/p>\n<p>In this day when people make headlines for returning large sums of money they&#8217;ve found, I think about that experience a lot.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for your gift, Mom.\u00a0 Happy Mother&#8217;s Day, and I miss you.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Noella Noelophile\u00ae My mother always smelled of Arpege cologne.\u00a0 It was her favorite. 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